Why do you guys don't have sex? And to the real incels: how much time, energy and effort have you put into trying to get laid.

Here 10 simple steps if you Sneed it:

1.) get 4 nice photos of you ( at least 1 where your smiling and even better when teeth are showing, not more than 2 selfies, at least 1 from an interesting activity). If you don't have any stage them.

2.) 1-2 hours tinder, bumble etc. Every day

3.) don't use pickup lines or don't try to hard in general to start a conversation.

4.) lead the conversation so it's about 70% about her. Try to find common interests. Make compliments.

5.) after 2-3 smalltalk topics ask her what she's looking for and tell her (be honest) what you're looking for before she replies.

6.) if you get confident DONT get autistic and special.

7.) if she asks what youre doing in your free time tell her you love to cook. ( ask her to cook something together for first date )

8.) ask for a date

9.) before the date: get a haircut, brush your teeth and tounge, trim ALL your body hair: arms, legs, chest, nose hair, eyebrows etc., take a long shower while scrubbing yourself with a soapy towel, use deodorant ( nothing with citrus smell unless you know that she's into pissing on each other)

Now you have 2 options:
1: you like her and you're sure she really likes you and you want more than just sex = DONT have sex even if she begs for it
2: all in = you want sex

10.) While at the date: try to relax and don't think about sex (they can sense that) , try to imagine it's your cousin or sister. If you're nervous don't try to hide it and just tell her. Don't take yourself too serious and just try to have a nice time. After some smalltalk get a little bit flirty. If she likes it and smiles, smile back and say: "wanna do it?" while holding eye contact. If she doesn't say no or looks freaked out, slow and gently take her hand by the fingers and take her with you to the bedroom.

11.) Fuck her right in the pussy.